I just turned 40.
Not everyone gets to see their 40th birthday. I am thankful I got to spend it with my husband, daughters and my parents.
My peeps made me feel very special for my 40th birthday. My oldest daughter made me a gift basket with all of my fav things: soft socks, sweater with a matching shirt, Burt’s Bees, my fav brand of chocolate and my fav drink. My husband made my favorite meal and searched hell and high water to find me the Tres Leches cake that I wanted. He also bought me a purse that I have wanted for years. My youngest two littles made little birthday decorations and handmade cards. My mom and dad bought me the matching wallet to go with my purse that my hubs bought for my birthday. I received many birthday texts and emails, wishing me a happy birthday from other family and friends.
As a person who is normally planning birthday parties, it felt pretty good to be the object of so much love and thoughtfulness.
40 Things I have learned in my 40 years of life:
1) Your relationship with Jesus is the most imporant. Cultivate it. Don’t let days go by without making time for Him.
2) God’s timing is not always our timing. Also, God’s plans aren’t always our plans either.
3) Do not let the sun go down on your anger. If you need to work out something with someone, TALK. TO. THEM. Have you prayed more about the problem, more than you have talked about the problem with others?
4) Be willing to be vulnerable.
5) Life isn’t fair but God is good.
6) Learn something new as often as you can.
7) It does not matter what other people think.
8) Give grace and second chances.
9) Always be on time.
10) Write it down and make reminders on your phone, so you don’t forget the important stuff!
11) Dogs and kids are good for your soul.
12) Take pictures and videos.
13) Change can be hard, try to embrace it.
14) Everybody has a story and a struggle.
15) Having children has taught me how to appreciate my parents.
16) Speaking of parents, I believe that most parents do the best they can do, yet sometimes make mistakes.
17) Kids don’t come with rule books.
18) When renovating your home, add extra money to your budget. Unexpected things always come up.
19) Practice grattitude, no matter where you are in your life.
20) Put down your phone. Take a social media break.
21) Talk to children like they matter!
22) Your body will feel so much better if you exercise during the week.
23) Speaking of your body, what you eat is important. Organic veggies, fruits and grass fed meats. I always have people tell me that I never look my age. It’s because of what I put inside my body. Think about it: If you drink cokes all during the week, along with a fast food or unhealthy diet, think about how your skin will look. Think of food as nourishment that is healing our bodies.
24) Drink water everyday.
25) Live as chemial free as possible. Think about everything you use in your home from cleaning products to food to shampoo. Research the name of each chemical listed under the ingredients from one bottle in your home. Look up what those particular chemicals can do to your body.
26) Travel as often as you can! We enjoy giving our children travel experience, not buying stuff that they won’t play with or use in 6 months.
27) Donate, sell or give away items you are no longer using.
28) Help people as often as you can. From donating your time to a food pantry to buying the person’s groceries at the check out line whose card was declined. Just help others, as often as you can.
29) Meal plan. I have meal planned since day one of our marriage. It saves so much time and money!
30) Take time to do something you’ve always wanted to do. Run a 5k, get a massage, treat yourself to a coffee. Just do something for you.
31) Do not be in debt. Pay off your home. Pay off that car payment. Do not carry credit card debt.
32) Buy out of season for clothing. You can save so much money! I have bought jackets, shoes and clothing for our family when we need items, out of season and save up to 90%.
33) Don’t buy bottled water. Buy a water filtration system for about $300. You will save money and it’s healthier drinking water. Plus, no littering our planet with plastics and your not exposed to the plastic by drinking the water from a plastic bottle.
34) Learn how to fix things yourself. From that leaky toilet to a screen door that won’t shut. You can save so much money by doing things yourself.
35) Have at least 6 months of savings for emergency only.
36) Grow a garden. Try to be as sustainable as possible. Herbs, veggies, fruit trees and shrubs.
37) Have a budget and stick to it.
38) Practice boundries when needed.
39) Own your own story. It can be hard, but it is better than running from it, your whole life!
40) Have courage. Even when it is hard.